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Game over!
Hi
When I asked this question from my friends all of them said : it's a GAME OVER of life!! Are you crazy!! Don't apply a remedy without need...
But I don't think so! You are the one who chooses your partner for rest of your life and most of the time no one is guilty about your fault. I talk about those who choose their partner themselves and before marriage they don't care about main topics in life because they are so passionate.
As you know the number of divorce is increasing and when you ask them why you get divorce they just say we couldn't deal with our problems and we didn't have enough understanding and comprehension!
So I don't know why they don't wait to know each other for 1 year and it's better not to be in such a hurry about this important decision.
I think we can't compromise and most of the time we don't want to be patient and we are not interest in settlement discussions.
Why do they come to this? What about memories? What happened to those faith and trust? What about vows?
Sometimes they compare their partner with other people and they find negative part of their personality and they want to make it bigger I guess!or they focus on bad habits and they forget good points!
But we shouldn't be pessimist and it's good to think twice.Look at this nice picture..
hiii Dear Me
u have chosen an interesting topic to write.
i think nowadays that girls are educated and employed they dont like to marry . in fact they think because they have income then they dont need to marry. but it is a wrong mindset in my opinion because when God created man, he assigned them a spouse. not only for humans but for all creatures.
and about increasing divorce in iran u r right. girls and boys just decide to get married based on feelings. but love is not enough.getting married is easy but maintaining life is hard especially with nowadays problems.marriage is a commitment. a couple should adhere to it and try to keep it. divorce is the easiest way to get ride of problems
Hiii dear Farzaneh
thanks for coming and sharing your ideas
I agree with you.and after awhile when they get older they regret about the past and think why they didn't get married
some friends of mine are depressed about it and as they get older they expect a complete person should come! and finally they will get married with an inappropriate one
ty take care
شاید هم علت خیلی از طلاق ها این باشه که ما قبل از ازدواج ، از انسان ها بت میسازیم و بعد از ازدواج متوجه میشیم که این آدم ، اون کسی نیست که فکر میکردیم.
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Hi dear friend
interesting topic.
I really noticed to this problem that most of people who are married, are not satisfied and when I ask thier opinion they say the same things!!!
I think theysay these thing, because they did not have an appropriate mentally situation when they had married. . In our country, when a girl approach
to the special age, All the relatives and friends and even families, force them to marry and Soemtimes, the girl thinks that, because all her friends are married, she should marries too without thinking about the reason of marrigae . The other problem is that most of people choose a wrong person for marrigae But when her or his parents and friends asks him or her to think more, he or she is so enthusiastic and passionate that can not understand anything. after some times, when they want to divorce, others ask them about their problems and they just say: We did not have any commongroung.
so as they had married hurriedly, they divorce without thinking too, without spending some time to figure our their problems.
thanks
Hi my dear dear friend. ty
yeah specially when you are the last girl of the family which is single it would be a disaster
and for boys is no big deal
some people stick to old ideas and some traditions are fossilized I think
but you know most people are getting to a habit of telling lies and it's not easy to understand their personality
thanks a million
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Game Over!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Everyone hears
what you say.
Friends listen to
what you say.
Best friends
listen to what you don't
say
A real friend
is one who walks in
when the rest
of the world walks out
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Before applying to any important
task,You had better think it over
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you are energetic
I like it
think it over talk it over .. work over.... over and over :)
thanks for commmming
well to be honest I don't like marriage I hate it and I m agree with ur friends It s a game over of life
when u can do sth alone what do u want a partner for?
I prefer to be alone in all parts of my future's life
and the other truth is that I hate men alooooooooot
anyway thank u for every thing
stay coool
Hi
stay coOol ;)
, marriage is not that much bad
when we want to cook something we search about it in all books or on the internet and this topic is more important than everything in our life and, if we gain the right information we will find out why it's necessary
come on take it easy
it means that you are a feminist or not?!
thanks a million for coming dear friend<3
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A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person.
Happy is the man who finds a true friend, and far happier is he who finds that true friend in his wife.
When marrying, ask yourself this question: Do you believe that you will be able to converse well with this person into your old age? Everything else in marriage is transitory.
Keep your eyes wide open before marriage, half shut afterwards.
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woOow ty ;)
really nice sentences
thanks for coming dear @-}--
“Good relationships don’t just happen. They take time, patience, and two people who truly want to be together.”
But unfortunayely nowadays people are not patient enough to make a happy life, they want to get
everything easily and fast
Thank you for your nice post
Hi
yeah it takes time and I think if we want a person with good character and qualities ,first of all we should work on ourselves
thanks for coming @-}--
“A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person.”
Hi dear friend & thanks a bunch 4 uR nice comments in my blog
“Happily ever after is not a fairy tale. It’s a choice.”
yw dear Motarjem and
I ask your forgiveness if some comments are a bit Inappropriate
thanks a million for coming <3
yeah I m a feminist a big one;)
Men marry women with the hope they will never change. Women marry men with the hope they will change. Invariably they are both disappointed.
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Hi Dear Me
Don't marry the person you think you can live with; marry only the individual you think you can't live without.
By all means, marry. If you get a good wife, you'll become happy; if you get a bad one, you'll become a philosopher!!!!
In our monogamous part of the world, to marry means to halve one's rights and double one's duties.
I wanna thank you very very much for your valuable comments!
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For partner selection should be very careful because he is a man who is our life, clothes, shoes and bags that every time we want to be able Asking. After a sharp eye to eye before you get married.
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